Rescheduling or cancelling a booking

The terms, in full

• The price shown has everything included.
• The 30% advance is paid when you choose a companion. Contact details are exchanged once it is paid and he has accepted.
• If he cannot accept, the advance carries to your next choice.
• If nobody is introduced, or he cancels or does not come: the advance is refunded in full.
• Once an introduction is made, the advance is earned and is not refunded if you cancel.
• The rest of the price shown is paid to him directly on the day.

Nothing is asked for until you choose

The full price for the days you asked for is shown to you before you choose anyone. You always see the whole figure first, and the terms above apply from the moment you choose a companion, not from the first message.

Asking about a date commits you to nothing. The advance becomes payable when you choose, and it is not earned until an introduction is made.

Before an introduction, and after

Before an introduction, the advance is still working for you: if the man you chose cannot take the date, it carries to your next choice, and if nobody is introduced it comes back in full.

After an introduction, the advance is earned, and cancelling does not bring it back — except where mandatory law gives you a refund right. If your plans are genuinely uncertain, that is an argument for choosing a date with room around it — not for choosing and hoping.

Why we publish this before you pay

Our own guide to companion scams names pressure to pay up front as the first red flag, and an advance paid before you meet can pattern-match to it if you meet it for the first time in a chat window. The difference is that a real policy exists in writing, with a figure attached and a plain rule for when it comes back, where you can read it and compare it before any money moves.

You may dislike these terms. The point is that they are the same terms on the estimate page, in the FAQ and in this guide, and you get to weigh them before you decide.